• Chananel Gez

    Since I’m in my shana rishona, it was the first time I stayed by my in-laws for pesach. My father in law began the bedikas chometz and i followed him around with his candle, trying to find a piece of the 10 hidden chometz pieces. In my family, my mother hides it and then the rest of the family looks with the father. By my in-laws, everyone gets a few pieces to hide and then they all watch as the father struggles to find all the pieces all by himself. They love to scream to him “cold, COLDER, OK warmer, HOT, HOT, HOTTER, YES!!”
    Well, when I found one piece on top of the light fixture and got totally excited and pointed it out to my father-in-law, all my sisters in law started screaming at me, and saying how i am spoiling all the fun! I was shocked since I know its an important thing to do and now I was being told off!!!
    So I stayed away till it was over and in the meanwhile, remembered that there was a big rabbi that would take forever to do bedikas chometz even though his entire house was only one room big. So how come it took him so many hours? Rabbi Yehuda Shmuleuitz explained to us that he would sit down after his bedika and would contemplate about all the aveiros he could think of in order to burn the chometz within himself. So that’s what I did. I sat there in the living room trying to think of all the aveiros I ever did and asked Hashem to forgive me. It was a painful experience but I felt better afterwards nontheless.
    The end of the story goes like this: My sisters-in-law realized they should not have screamed at me for simply trying to do what I thought was prefectly the right thing to do, especially since I was not warned before-hand of their way of doing it. I easily found in my heart to forgive them and we all felt better after that.
    THE END.

  • http://rechovot.blogspot.com The Rebbetzin’s Husband

    Never saw anyone actually roll on the floor in laughter!

    • rhecht

      Then you should have been there!